BLOG/VLOG 101: ĐỐI PHÓ VỚI HATERS ♡ Pretty.Much

Let's see
Make up for going out
Oh so many
OMG! Her voice is so disgusting
You'd BETTER change your voice
So ugly!!! Why are you on YOUTUBE???
Her video is the same as others???
There is no creativity???
She bought so many thing?
How can she even use all of it?
"I just arrived in Thailand today"
MAN! Her voiceeeeeee????
Hello!
Have you watch that video on YOUTUBE?
That girl is so chessy
I want to vomit when I watch her video
I can't believe that she could even put that video on Youtube?
Today I watch a fitness video, that guy talks so much and all b*llsh*t
So useless
He thinks he is better than anyone else
His technique is so basic and simple. And I don't think he can even do it
He uploaded a lot of videos but never show his body
I wonder whether his body is better than anyone else
Hello everyone
Today, I made this surprise video for you guys
And I think you are wondering about the weird intro
Totally different than other videos I have made before
There is a very simple reason why I make this video
I would like to speak out about a big situation these days
About the "keyboard hero"...behind the computer and mobile devices. This situation not just happens in Vietnam but also all around the world
These scenarios are just what I have been facing and heard of on all social media platform
All of the social media platforms that we are using these days
We don't have to read newspapers or magazine and still can keep up with all the news on social media
From fighting, relationship issue, raise of stocks
New exchange rate or new gas price
Mommy news or daddy news
That's why now all newspaper and magazine have to invest a lot in social medias
Youtube, Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat are the most use platforms at the moment
Where we can share information
That's the main reason why all social media platform exists
to share information, to connecting people...but not to be bullying
There is one issue that I see a lot which is
Whenever someone put something on Youtube, there will be automatically two sides of opinions
And even throw negative vibe and bad words
We often call "bullying"
I don't know what is happening in other kind of videos on Youtube
What have they been facing?
What other Youtube creators have been facing?
But for me, I have been in this beauty community for so long...about over 4 years
I felt like...
The "keyboard heroes" can't be controlled
And I want to make this video for everyone to understand us...the youtubers
And help other Youtubers to
be more confident and be prepared when facing these "keyboard heroes" because they will not go away
We can only be more confident, be a better person and fight back
And now we will start with some tips that I'd like to give you
First, what is bullying?
Bullying is the use of superior strength or influence to intimidate (someone), typically to force him or her to do what one wants. It can happen both in real life and online
You can ask yourself whether you had been bullied during high school or middle school
Have you ever been bullied by bad people who created bunch of ugly nicknames for you
For example, I had some ugly nicknames like
Ly "lug jaw"
Yes, I don't have perfect jaw like others
Second
"Mushroom" Ly
Yes, I am only 5'2"
Third
Ly ĐIỆU
Yes, because I'm always so dressy
I don't really remember all the nicknames that they'd given me
But whenever I'd been given an ugly nickname, I felt so upset and despressed
And if I give you 5' to ask yourself
You can point out some nicknames that you'd never want to talk about it
And that's one of the way they bully you in real life
So what about online bullying?
All of those hater comments
Those negative and unsupportive comments
Those comments do not give you any positive vibe
or supportive or even point directly at you with bad words
"You are bad" - "You are so ugly" - "You are fake"
or even compare you with other people
On youtube, there are so many types of videos
similiar topics, backgrounds, or even products are so simple and easy to understand when you are on Youtube
When you are doing Youtube, you will face that problem
That's why creating your own style, personalities and contents are so IMPORTANT
Similiar topic but you can create your own way of expressing it with your unique personalities
And that's how you show people that you are not another Youtuber, you are a Creator
And for me, when I just started doing Youtube, whenever I received hate comments
About my style, my tone of voice or even my skin problem
I often have to face those comments on Youtube
When I decided to put my face and my life on Youtube and other social media channels
I knew I have to face this kind of problems
Because my style or even my tone of voice are hard to change
or take a lot of time to change
But I think that's how I am so I don't have to change to please other people
About my skin problem, OK, but everyone have different skin problem
If I have acne, it's not just because I use a lot of products...because of a lot of other problems.
And if you study dermatologist or cosmetics, you know it all
Some people don't use anything but still have perfect skin
Or some use a lot of products and able to maintain perfect skin. But sometimes it is totally opposite
because acne or problem skin can be caused by hormones and other health issues as well
And of course this video is not about skincare so I will stop right here
But that's one of the issues that most of beauty youtubers are facing now
And that's how you can define between supportive comments and negative/unsupportive comments
Now I will some you some tips to avoid bullying and also feel much better about yourself
Do not need to care about those negative comments, just focus on what you do best, what you can give to your viewers
First, do not CRY when you see those comments
I have trained myself, even before being on Youtube, that I cannot cry when I see negative comments
Even online or in real life, I don't allow myself to think about it too much or cry because of it
I see a lot of youtubers told me that they can control themselves from crying and thinking that they are not good enough
I think it's totally waste of time because those haters don't know us and they are nothing but a stranger
We can use some good advices to become a better Youtuber
But we cannot cry, because crying doesn't change anything other than showing them that you are weak and they got what they want
So the first thing that DO NOT CRY
Second, block them right away
On Facebook, we have a choice to either BLOCK or BAN that user
You can BLOCK them and they will never able to comment or react to your posts. They can only see it
On Youtube, you can block users as well. I will insert a demo video right here or down at the description box for your preference
And that's how you kick them out of your life
we don't have to say anything to them
If you don't want to block them
You can preview every single comments on your channel
This can be applied only on Youtube
When you go on your Youtube Setting, you can choose your choice of preview. I also insert the demo video here or at the description box
So you can control the comment section, you will check every single comments which come to your channel
Of course, it will take a lot of your time to preview every single comments
If you don't have a lot of time, just delete any comment that you don't want to see or be on your video, or hide and block that user
If those strangers still keep coming back to your videos and disturb your work with different fake/spam accounts
on Youtube, Facebook, Instagram
You still have one more tool that is FLAG users
which means report and alert the account to the social media's community management team
so they can preview and analyze the users whether that users are worth to stay on their platform
There are so many cases that a lot of haters create a video just about you and make fun of you
Of course, you can also FLAG that video
so Youtube can preview the video content again to delete the video or even the channel
One last thing that we have to be caution and also remember that
all mobile devices are now have the camera function
if you come across any video or photo that has your appearance and you don't know who took it...or doesn't have your permission
You can contact Youtube and tell them your reason why you don't want that video to be on Youtube anymore
because they don't have your permission and you have all the right to control your image on social media and search engine
Youtube can help you to take it down
Those are some simple tips that I can share with you today
Those tools and functions that Youtube and other social media give you to be in control of your own image online
and not being disturb by those haters
Of course, you will have to be stronger in mind before even using those tools
because I know, seeing those hater comments for the first time would be really hard for you
you don't know what you have done wrong to make those people hate you like that
You need a stronger mind and soul
and forget about it, take it out of your mind
Always know what you are doing is right and give a lot of benefits to other people who love you by who you are
If they comment with a supportive feedback, you will be appreciate and improve yourself
Otherwise, just forget and push it away
I don't know what to say but we will support each other, whether you are a viewer on any social media, if you see any unwanted comment, please report it
We will have to stay together, we cannot deal with it by ourselves without your support
Of course, all the supports and cheering from you are appreciated
And that's the reason why we still keep working hard to bring more valuable contents for you guys
I hope this video would help you in some ways
to my viewers and other fellow youtubers to be stronger and understandable
And we are not alone. You have a whole community behind your back to support wherever you go and whatever you do
and fight back to those haters who are trying to hurt you with their bad behaviors and pull you away from doing what you love
I hope this video is helpful for you
If you have any question or story to share with me
please leave it down below, I will read it all and share my stories with you as well
Thank you for staying here this long
Even though my tips are pretty simple but I think it will help you avoid the feeling of being disappointed about ourselves
Once you are on youtube and other social medias, or even public figure, we are all heroes
You are braver than you think
That's it
I will end this video right here
I hope to see you again soon on my channel
Bye and see you again

BLOG/VLOG 101: ĐỐI PHÓ VỚI HATERS ♡ Pretty.Much

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