How To Talk To Girls In A Restaurant (INFIELD)

He has mastered the art of seduction. Many bootcamps encourage men to be assertive.
A woman wants to be turned on.
We've done all the testing and we know what works.
Hey, Matt Artisan here from The Attractive Man and
I'm showing you this approach because
this is a situation that most guys would
never do. A girl that's sitting in a
restaurant, eating and has food in her
mouth as I walk up to her and approach
her. But here's the deal, when you do an
approach that seems more difficult, the
girl tends to like you and be attracted
to you even more because she knows that
it took a lot of balls, a lot of courage to
put yourself in that awkward situation.
Doesn't always happen some girls are
like too awkward or too shy but
oftentimes you'll get more attraction
from the girl in what seems like a
harder to approach situation. The key
though is that you have to acknowledge
the situation or acknowledge the reality
or else it just comes off a little rude
that you're interrupting her while she's
in the middle of doing something. So you
have to say "Hey, I know you're eating and
I know it's kind of rude" and when you do
that you're acknowledging it and you're
owning the fact that you're doing it,
therefore it's not a big deal anymore. So,
let's see what happens.
So there she gave me a logical answer, saying she moved from one
place to another place. Now you could ask
another logical question back like
"Where in New York did you live?" or
"where in L.A. do you live now?" or "how long
have you been here?" but that takes the
conversation nowhere. It's better to
ask an emotional question like "What do
you love about it here?" or "why did you do
that? what inspired you to do that?" and
what's even better than that is to make
a comment that's emotional, talking about
the feelings behind it, right? I talked
about how that could be kind of scary.
And what's also great is to assume the
motivation or qualities that she had
that might have motivated her to do it.
So I said "Oh, you must be very
adventurous I like that" right? You want to
show appreciation on things other than
her looks. It's like her looks just got
your foot in the door, that's what caused
you to go say hi to her, now she has to
win you over by talking about her
herself and hopefully winning you over
by showing that she has some cool
qualities. And then you want to show
appreciation for those qualities. That
works really well.
Because she's comfortable
she's relaxed, she's sitting and you're
standing. You're less comfortable. So if
you want to go longer than two minutes,
if you want to have a, if you think things are
going really well and you want to have
you know five-minute interaction, don't
be standing the whole time. Sit down. I
didn't really want to sit down. I wanted
to let her finish eating her burrito, you
know I wanted to go do some more
approaches, so I kept it short. It's up to
you. You have to use your own discretion.
If you think you can make the
interaction better and kind of have like
an instant date right then and there,
then by all means sit down with her. But
if, even if she's not giving you the best
response, as long as she's not like doing
this like get away from me or shooing or
saying "I have a boyfriend" you know or
saying "please leave" then keep going at
least have you know one to two-minute
interaction and go for the Facebook or
the phone number. Because I've had so
many interactions where the girl was
kind of neutral or even didn't even seem
that into it but I still got her phone
number or her facebook and then we ended
up meeting up later. And then I've also
had interactions where the girl seems
really really into it and I'm thinking
"wow that was solid, we're definitely
going to meet up" and it never happens so
Now listen up. Because if you want to
be able to approach beautiful women in any situation
without hesitation, fear or nervousness and
eliminate your approach anxiety fast,
then I have good news because I've put
together a free confidence training
where I reveal a simple technique that
you can do in a matter of seconds to
eliminate fear. Just click the link down
in the description and i'll send you
that training. There's also a link to the
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right now. Also make sure to subscribe to
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name is Matt Artisan from The Attractive
Man and i'll see you in the next video.

How To Talk To Girls In A Restaurant (INFIELD)

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