JOURNAL OF GENDER AND LAW SHEDS
LIGHT ON A NEW SEX PRACTICE CALLED STEALTHING.
IT IS A FORM
OF SEXUAL ABUSE.
BASICALLY IT IS THE PURPOSEFULLY REMOVING OF A
CONDOM DURING SEX WITHOUT
CONSENT FROM THE FEMALE PARTNER, OR MALE PARTNER FOR HOMOSEXUAL
RELATIONSHIPS.
THE STUDY'S AUTHORS SAYS THAT STEALTHING
TRANSFORMS CONSENSUAL SEX INTO
NONCONSENSUAL AND IS A GRAVE VIOLATION OF DIGNITY AND HONOR.
THERE IS A WEBSITE, AND
THIS MAN BY THE USERNAME ONE SICK MIND
MADE A COMPREHENSIVE GUIDE TO
STEALTH SEX.
I READ THIS ARTICLE HE WROTE AND IT IS BASICALLY
THIS EXHAUSTIVE LIST OF TIPS AND TRICKS THAT ARE ALL SORT OF THE
SCORE OF DECEPTION.
HE
RECOGNIZES IT IS WRONG.
SO HE LISTS THINGS LIKE CONDOM
REMOVAL, CONDOM SABOTAGE, AND SOMETHING HE CALLS LATE PULLOUT.
THIS GARNERED SO MANY COMMENTS
ON THIS WEBSITE.
>> THANKS TO JOHNNY 2700.
>>THERE ARE TON OF COMMENTS ON THE SITE WITH THE SAME
SENTIMENT.
IN FACT EARLIER THIS YEAR IS WAS COURT CONVICTED A
MAN OF RATE FOR DOING THIS.
SHE STARTED HER ARTICLE IN THE
COLUMBIA JOURNAL OF GENDER AND
LAW RELATING SOME OF THE STORIES OF WOMEN WHO HAVE DEALT WITH
THIS.
THIS IS ALSO PREVALENT IN
THE GAY COMMUNITY.
SHE STARTED HER ARTICLE TALKING ABOUT WOMEN
THAT HAVE EXPERIENCED THIS AND GETTING INTO HOW THEY FELT
VIOLATED, DECEIVED, AND A LOT OF WOMEN ARE DEALING WITH IT.
ONE
IN FIVE WOMEN HAVE EXPERIENCED THIS.
THIS IS ALSO CALLED BIRTH
CONTROL SABOTAGE.
HAVE YOU GUYS HEARD OF THIS PRIOR TO THIS STORY?
>>NO.
STEALTHING SOUNDS LIKE THE TYPE OF THING YOU'VE HEARD
ABOUT IN COLLEGE BUT IT IS DUMBER THAN ANY ONE OF THOSE
WEIRD SEX TERMS.
I HATE TO SAY IT, BUT IF YOU DO THIS IT MIGHT
JUST BACKFIRE ON YOU WHEN SHE'S
PREGNANT.
WHILE YOU MIGHT GET YOUR ROCKS OFF ESTABLISHING
DOMINANCE, WHATEVER THAT MEANS
IN THE MOMENT, IF YOU GET HER PREGNANT SHE'S GOING TO HAVE
YOUR BABY.
AND YOU'RE GOING TO HAVE TO PAY FOR IT.
WHILE IT MIGHT SEEM LIKE A GOOD IDEA AT THE TIME, IT IS A
REALLY DUMB IDEA IN THE LONG RUN.
>> WHAT YOU ARE MENTIONING THERE ABOUT HOW THEY ARE TRYING TO
FIGURE OUT WHAT THEY WANT TO REFERENCE THIS AS.
THESE ARE
FUNDAMENTALS THAT YOU CAN
TRANSFER OVER TO RAPE AS WELL.
THERE ARE GOING AGAINST WHAT THE
WOMAN WANTS, AND HER PERMISSION.
IT'S A SIMILAR TYPE OF CHARACTER
THAT WE WOULD BE WILLING TO HAVE
SEX WHEN SOMEONE SAYS NO.
YOU ARE ALREADY GOING AGAINST THE
FUNDAMENTAL RIGHT OF A WOMAN TO
GIVE CONSENT.
YOU ARE DOING IT BECAUSE YOU THINK YOU ARE BEING
SMART.
EITHER WAY THERE SHOULD BE SOME SORT OF PUNISHMENT BECAUSE YOU
ARE GOING AGAINST A WOMAN'S FUNDAMENTAL RIGHT TO CHOOSE.
>> SHE CONSENTED TO PROTECTED SEX.
>>THAT WAS GOING TO BE MY POINT.
THAT IS THE BIGGEST ISSUE HERE.
A LOT OF COMMENTS TALKED ABOUT HOW IF SHE IS CONSENTING TO
PENETRATION THEN YOU CAN DO THIS OR SHE CAN EXPECT THIS TO
HAPPEN.
ALL THESE COMMENTS WERE RIDICULOUS AND ABSURD.
IF A
WOMAN CONSENTS TO PROTECTED SEX,
GREAT.
ANYTHING BEYOND THAT IS NOT OKAY.
YOU GUYS ARE SAYING
GET YOUR ROCKS OFF ñ I DO THINK THERE ARE DEFINITELY PEOPLE WHO
MIGHT DO THIS BECAUSE OF THE POTENTIAL PLEASURE THAT CAN BE
GAINED, BUT I DO THINK IT IS MORE OF A POWER MOVE, AND A WAY
TO EXERT THEIR POWER AND THEIR
DOMINANCE.
>>IT IS THIS HORRENDOUS WAY OF THINKING THAT PLAGUES GUYS THAT
WILL EVENTUALLY USE THE SAME
EXCUSE ñ SHE WAS ASKING FOR IT ANYWAY.
THAT IS WHAT THESE GUYS
ARE MAKING THEMSELVES THINK.
>> THE OTHER THING IS THE ASPECT OF THE MESSAGE BOARD WHERE
EVERYONE IS SHARING IT.
NOT EVERYONE IS SERIOUS, BUT THERE
ARE PEOPLE THAT ARE TAKING IT
SERIOUSLY.
THIS DOES HAVE ALL THE TRAPPINGS OF ñ THERE ARE
TONS OF STANDUP COMEDIANS THAT
HAVE BITS.
IS AN EXCUSE TO MAKE A SILLY TERRIBLE VOICE ON STAGE.
THIS MIGHT HAVE STARTED AS NAPA PEOPLE ARE TAKING IT SERIOUSLY
WHICH HAPPENS A LOT OF THE TIME.
IT IS JUST SO DUMB.
I WANT TO
HEAR FROM SOMEONE THAT THINKS
THIS IS A GOOD IDEA, TWEET ME.
>>EVERY ARTICLE I AM READING IS TALKING ABOUT THIS BEING A NEW
TREND.
NO, THIS IS NOT A NEW TREND, IT IS A FORM OF SEXUAL
ASSAULT.
>> STEALTHING IS BAD NAME FOR IT.
>> AND IT MAKES IT SOUND COOL AND THIS IS NOT COOL AT ALL.