Personality Development Training: How to Develop Your Personality

Hello my name is Ved and I welcome you to Program Your Mind
Today I am gonna speak to you on a very important topic
that How you can enhance and develop your personality?
because whatever the technical knowledge you have learned through education, it has an important role to shape your career.
but the other important thing , how is your personality?
how much powerful and confident you look?
what is your image in sight of different people?
so it is important that as a person you develop yourself in a very good manner.
your personality must be powerful and strong
so I am gonna share with you the six topics related to that
if you try to follow and integrate so there can be a great change in your life
so let's start
First thing is your Dressing Sense
let me tell you, if you have many people in front of you so you may observed that make an imagination of them by just looking at them
that what person would be like what
suppose if some person is coming to meet you, so what do you look at first
firstly you see their appearance that how he or she is looking?
if he didn't give much attention on his dressing sense
or not looking properly dressed up or not looking neat and tidy
so there becomes a weak representation of that person in your mind
that may be this person is not so much successful or confident or doesn't do care of himself much
so the image of that person is created on lower side of your mind
the same happens with you also
so whenever you are gonna present yourself so be careful
that how exactly you are dressed up?
that will enhance your personality very much
let me tell you some basics
if you are in field of speaking or sales
so three colors are very important for you
Black, grey and White
we call Black and Grey the colors of Power
as I have worn a Grey color suit and white shirt
so these are the power colors
in the same way Red also is a power color
it is not like that you wear Red color dress if you are male bit if you are female then it can work
like a Red color Tie it will suit you better
because it shows you as powerful
so there is a one more color, Blue which give you the Trustworthy experience
that means when people see you wearing a Blue Tie or Blue suit
so the image is reflected of yours in other people's mind, that is of a Trustworthy person
so these are some some things you can be careful for
and it is not like that you may have the expensive and costly dresses
but how you dressed up and keep yourself Neat and Tidy
how the other person can feel that this person keep himself manage and organized
so you need to be careful for your dressing sense
this plays a very important and main factor role in your personality
Now second is your Language
I would like to tell you about with more forcefully
that never use loose language
cheap or loose talk language should never be used
because if your language is filled these kind of words
so your personality is going to be projected as it is in mind of the person in front of you
that may be your character is not so good
would you like that?
I know you wold not like so, let me tell you one more thing
whatever you are speaking as your language it is coming out of your mouth later but is being created in your Mind before
so if you use cheap language so it means that your mind is filled with so many cheap words
do you like so?
start reversing it
try to speaking good words and good communication
where will you get good language? when you will listen good people
as you are watching this YouTube video, you might have listening other good speakers
you can read good books
your language will be started upgrading from there
so start using that kind of language
whatever it is, in friend circle there is a little different communication and that is okay
but you have to be careful that what kind of language of yours is, it is projecting your personality
so you are needed to be careful on your language
you should use better language pattern, Right?
so this is the second important point you have to be careful and integrate in your life
Now third is What you read?
understand this, all those who have achieved success in their life
They are the ones who have read good things
They do not put any useless information in their Mind
They read good things, They read good books
as I have a book in front of me, let me show you. the book's name is 'Magic of Thinking Big'
I read it long ago
still this book is with me because I have read this and many other books
and I know those have become so much successful in their life
They are always Good readers
You may have heard a saying "Good Readers are Good Leaders".
that means those who are good readers they become good leaders in life
if you want to lead your life or want to be on top level in your profession so read good books
there are many good Books available start reading them
Now a days I am coaching a person who is the owner of a Huge company
when I interacted with him he said the the books he read in initial day they impacted on him a lot
and now I feel that I shouldn't read some sort of books
because I also got the effects of those book on my personality
you should be so much selective and choosy of what kind of book you read
there are lots of books which you can read
in the description of this video I will mention some books name which I read and you also can read
if you're not yet started reading books, so start reading good books
I would like to tell you one more statement here of Napoleon Hill whose famous books are Think and Grow rich and law of Success
He said "Your life is the average of those 5 people in whom association you are living
that means the people with whom you are having a thought exchange and interaction on mental level
your life gonna be like them 10 to 20 percent more or less
your finances gonna be like their finances
I know many of us don't have the opportunity to be in touch and interaction of highly successful people
but at least we can read their books
so there are many readers who have been successful in their life by reading such books so start reading good books
and you also can be
so start reading good books
Now Next, Discussion
so understand when you discuss something with someone so it is important to know in which direction your discussion is going
if you are kind of Discussion of criticizing
you are going to waste the tremendous energy you have which you shouldn't waste
when there is a Debate so I would recommend you to not to be a part in that
because the one who is fighting he only wants fight
he doesn't have concern with what will be the end result of it
or I just reach to what is True and right
He is just enjoying in fighting
and you might have heard a saying
"if you fight with pig you both get dirty but the pig loves it
that means if you fight with pig so the Pig enjoys in it, do You also enjoy in it? No.
so the next if you see a discussion is going in negative direction
only irrelevant discussion is going to be happening there
so keep away yourself from these kind of discussion
make an excuse of call and go somewhere else
you can talk about your time schedule, that I have to go somewhere else
don't get engaged in this kind of discussion
you need to discuss about Ideas,good thought and your growth
choose friends in your circle those who discuss relevant discussion
those who only find faults in politics and in world.what changes you will get by discussing with them?
Nothing at all
so start discussing with people who moving towards growth in their life
whose focus is to achieve something
when you will go in that kind of discussion so your Personality will be developed automatically
suppose you have some challenges in your life
let's take an example, suppose you can't speak English well
and you are surrounded with people those who also can't speak English well
so you are so much comfortable
but if you go in association of those people whose communication skill is so powerful
who use the power of English language very well
so you will feel very disturbed
because you will feel so uneasy that I can't speak English like them
you know what will happen now?
if you will keep yourself in this association
so you will make effort, hard work and upgrade yourself
and there will be change in your life and your personality will be developed
so these are the some points which you need to integrate in your life
Let's come on to next point, Jokes
We all share Jokes on Whats App,Facebook and through messages to enjoy and entertain our self
when we talk to each other
But I would like to recommend you one thing
that stop sharing,telling and discussing the cheap Jokes from this day onward
because the kind of Jokes you crack tells about your personality that which kind of person you are
if you tell this kind of Jokes so the same kind of image is projected in the mind of other people
that you are a cheap kind of person and you wouldn't like this
so Be careful about your communication
that how should I communicate and what kind of personality should I have
the kind of discussion you make with people so the same gets projected in their mind
if You use whats app and send motivational messages to other
not the long stories which people do copy, past and forward
but if you send some motivational quote and inspiring messages specifically
or share the link of a good video
so people percieve your personality in this way that you are so sincere and mature
but if you share cheap jokes so your personality in people's mind gets created that you are nothing for good
and you will not like this at all
so you need to be careful so much for this thing
Now last, that is your Profession
if you are in any profession , you may have your business,job or you may be self-employed
whatever you are doing
You must learn understand one thing "Work more than paid for'"
that mean any amount you get in exchange of any service
always give your service at higher end
make more effort than the amount you re getting through salary or in another way
This is the formula of growth, this is the secret of growth
those who only match their salary they never grow they remains average
those who get less they go to downfall
but those who make more effort than that
that means you got some amount but effort-wise you paid more
so you are going on the track of Growth
and it is going to enhance and develop your personality very much
so you have to integrate these six points in your life
Only you can make yourself great
you have the unlimited possibility to grow and make yourself successful at this time
but this will only happen when you will take responsibility
that Yes it is my responsibility develop myself
then only you will develop yourself
if you think it is my company,school or college's job
and they will develop me and will bring change in my life. so, nothing is gonna happen
let's take an example, if Government decide to feed everyone
that means they will just feed you that means they can only give you food. nothing more than this
but if someone wants to eat the food of their choice,taste and desired dish
which he wants to have so he need to make effort and earn only then he can purchase his desired food
in the same way if you give responsibility to your school,college, institution or something to develop you
so they will develop you to the extent of some level
but you will have to take responsibility to become extra ordinary
You can make yourself extra-ordinary
for that you need to follow and integrate these all points in your life
then just check and you will not find taste in bad things
you will feel to spend time with people who make relevant discussion and growing
let me do something in my life
because you don't want to waste your life. I also know that
so I was giving you some tips through this video which have reached to you. so, start applying these things
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