Tony Robbins: How to STAY DISCIPLINED ( Tony Robbins Coaching )

The step one is obsess get totally focused unleash your desire that gives
the energy step two is not waiting it's massive action keep changing your
approach until you find effective execution if you're running east looking
for a sunset I don't care how positive you are you're not going to see the
sunset is the wrong strategy it's just not gonna happen so you got to have a
proven strategy and you can get there faster same way I've done it with these
books is saying I could go this or I could spend four years interview 50 of
the smartest people in the world all billionaires are started with nothing
and find out what they did and take compress decades in the days that's
really the purpose of everything that I do so when you have that plan and keep
changing your approach I always tell people you know how long would you give
the average kid to learn how to walk before you turn the kid who said dude
it's never gonna happen you're not a walker just give it up a little you
crazy make it's gonna keep trying until well that's really step two you keep
changing your approach and so you find and then the third step to achieve it
really is as simple as it may sound if you're obsessed you know what you want
you take a massive action maybe you modeled somebody figure out
the right actions and get there quicker and you're executing you still need a
little grace some people call it luck you could call God but I really believe
that there's the part we do and then there's the part that comes to us but I
do now grace shows up a lot more when you do the first two steps on your own
and grace shows up a lot more when you acknowledge grace in your life when you
acknowledge that I was born in a world where I didn't have to build this
internet that I can pull out of my pocket they answer anything on earth I
am driving on streets I didn't pave I'm reading books I didn't
have to write that's the gift of our lives and I think when we experience
that grace we don't just experienced more achievement but we
it's worth a fillip if you find your passion you're gonna have this
tremendous energy of sustainable energy but momentum requires you always do the
next thing that keep the momentum going and the reason you get yourself in a
passionate place is so that you changed your life it the only finger changes
life is making a decision so while you're in this passionate state that's
where you make decisions you don't make decisions but you like
what do you think all right let's decide if you make a decision in a state
without momentum and you make a decision from place where there's no passion you
are not going to get momentum it'll kill momentum it's beside commit and resolve
some of you in the past you've gotten momentum you've gotten passionate you've
even made a decision but a decision is the first step
decision is like a war I got to do this or that all right I'm gonna make myself
through this but commitment is when you nail after you've decided you commit to
do this for the long term whether it's hard or easy doesn't matter you're doing
this it takes it from this moment and it carries you to the future even when
things are difficult and the third state is resolved resolved means it's done
it's like it doesn't even if you took action it's done inside you so it's done
out there there's no question whatsoever then once you decide the only way the
commitment and the energy and the momentum continues is if you take
immediate massive what my friends massive life write down in your notes
massive action is the cure-all massive action is the cure-all if you're having
a difficult time with something your relationship isn't where you want it to
be your finances are not where you want to be your body's not where you want to
be your business not where it wanna be you need to take massive action and if
that doesn't work try something else so that's just work try something else keep
going with massive action and you will find the way because it will give you
momentum the ultimate question I'm always asking is how do I help people to
break through the question is what are you breaking through to in essence all
of us at some level to feel alive have to always feel like we're growing when
people ask me what does it take to be happy I always tell them one word
progress progress equals happiness even if you're not where you want to be yet
if you're on the road if you're improving if you're making progress
you're gonna love it you're gonna feel a lot
on the other hand it is a matter how successful you are if you stopped
growing you start dying inside now how does this
relate to this session on breakthrough I'll say it's really simple if you and I
want to know what it takes to be happy we have to understand what is our
current blueprint of how our life's supposed to be a little mean by
blueprint well we have a story in our head about life's supposed to be some
people's story is you work hard in school you become really great you're a
nice person you're a good person and then you grow up and you take care of
yourself and you find the ideal man and you fall in love you have a white picket
fence and you have three perfect children and you live happily ever after
somebody else's story the old story was you work really hard in school you excel
in college you're going to work for a big corporation and you move up through
the ranks until you're of the President or chairman of the company and you
become successful respected throughout life these are some old stories
obviously the stories that we hear today and what people's lives are supposed to
be like a completely diverse and no longer have these little arc types but
when our type still seems to remain that archetype is in order
you to really feel like you're enough many people believe they have to achieve
an enormous amount they may do it in different ways than they may do it by
building a company and taking a public when they're 27 or 25 years old or you
know they finally create a new technology or they become a very special
doctor but we live in a culture in the West that teaches people that you're not
enough unless you do something really special and uniquely define special and
unique and interesting ways a schoolteacher is not special movie
a mother who stays home with her children day and night
sculpting their minds their bodies their souls and their future is not special we
live in a world today where we treat teachers like they're nobody and pay
them accordingly we wonder why our children seem to have challenges of
learning and growing or being engaged in school we spend thousands of dollars on
some item like a computer but what we look at overall we invest in for the
teacher and for that person who's the personal connection with them is so
small we live in a society where many women look down and say well you're just
a housewife you're just a mother see some of the pain we have in our society
is not because there's one right or one wrong approach but because we try to
make everybody fit into some particular approach to life here's what's gonna
make you happy or make you unhappy in life it's real simple let's do a quick
test if you're in a situation right now where you look at your life I know
there's an area of your life that you probably feel pretty darn good about
even if you're not happy with your finances I bet you feel damn good close
to your kids or if you're not close to your kids maybe you don't have any kids
maybe you feel really good about your career if you're doing not so good in
your career maybe you got a really great body that you've trimmed down or
strengthened up or you know you really shaped yourself the way you want
muscularly or in the way you look or if that's not happening maybe you feel a
really special connection with God or really close to your mother or father
your family whatever almost everybody has an area of their life they feel
really good about if they're honest if they're fair to themselves
what's the me of your life you really feel happy about I want you think about
it for a moment truthfully what's an area in your life today that if you
wanted to be happy about it you really could feel proud about it you could feel
like scenario you're doing darn well in and if you're really hard on yourself
there's still an area what's an area I want you to think of it right now so
once you think of that area whether it's your body or your finances or your
career or your intimate relationship or your relationship with your kids your
relationship with your Creator whatever it is I want you to think about why are
you happy with that air of your life right now today why are you happy with
that area of your life right now today I really think about it if you're in a
seminar with Matt have you write this down
if you can you can put me on hold here for a second because I'd like to reveal
to you what the formula is for happiness and if I say there's a formula for
happiness and here's what it is you're gonna go yeah yeah sure that's what he
says but if you put down the answer and we can see the formulas real without me
telling you what it is you get to look at your own life and say it matches
you're gonna know this is right so you could stop this right now if you want
put me on hold and just write down what's an area of your life you're
really really happy about you're really pleased with or you could be if you
wanted to focus on it and why are you happy with that part of your life right
now even if you're not happy with everything what's the year you're happy
with and why put me on hold right now or you're not gonna do that just think for
a moment why specifically be real why now when I asked this if you turn me
back on now if I ask this of an audience I'll have people write this down for a
few minutes and I'll call on people I'll say share with the person next to you
first what are you happy about why are you
happy in that area and be specific and after they share I'll have people stand
up I'll call in a variety people and I say hey I'm telling me what are you
happy about she'll say well honestly I'm really happy with my body she goes I
never thought I'd say that but I used to be so unhappy with it and you know I
finally I did some things I push myself through and now I exercise regularly I
mean I'm not perfect but I feel fit I feel strong I feel energetic and that's
really I don't know it just feels good to me now I say to everybody I'm now
gonna show you what the form in the front of penises and it's real simple I
want to reveal it to you so you don't ever forget it whenever you're happy
with the air of your life it's because right now your current life experience I
call it your LC or life conditions the conditions of your life your life
conditions in that area match or are equal to your blueprint your story your
belief about how life should be in that area so this woman says to me I'm really
happily my body because it's not perfect her blueprint is I don't need to be
perfect but it's so much better than it was unfit and then strong and I have
this energy her mental blueprint says I should be fit strong and have energy I
don't need to be perfect but I should be that way well in my life my body matches
how I think it should be I good about my life how about somebody
else I'll say you know tell me there you're happy with someone else to say
well I'm really happy with my career and why well I'm doing better than I even
thought I would be I mean I I'm ahead of the schedule of where I hoped I'd be at
this stage I'm working at this level in this company and I have these skills and
this ability and it's even better than I thought but once again listen this
person's happy with this area of their life because their current life
conditions in the area called their career are even better than they expect
that they would be better than their blueprint better than their belief about
how it should be if it's really better you tend to be over the moon but one
woman would say you know I can't tell you I said I'm the happiest ever been in
my whole life how come she goes because I have this man in my life I'm in love
with him and he loves me and I can be myself with him and he we have this
incredible intimacy and this passion and we want to be with each other all the
time and I never get bored with him what's
her blueprint you want to be the somebody that you could have total in
Tennessee with somebody who you love and loves you was a part of her rules her
beliefs of how it should be she said it you know it seems to me I never want to
be with anybody else I'm gonna be with him every moment her blueprint about how
life should be and the way she lives her relationships even better than she hoped
when it's better than you all you're going to be totally excited so think
about this then what's an area you're not happy with
let's see we can find the formula for unhappiness but the formula for
happiness is to be able to meet your expectations or exceed them that we
really make sure excited but to be happy at least meet it does not be perfect but
if you general your meaning what you expect you want from your life in that
area feel good right conditions match blueprint feel good so what makes you
feel bad or creates pain stress frustration little easy way to figure it
out answer this question what's an area of life you're not happy with let me be
honest with yourself and even if your life is great in all kinds of ways I'm
sure there's an area you'd like to improve anybody is honest if they're
doing great in their career very often they don't take care of their
bodies so much if they're really focused on their body you know very often they
find themselves in a position where they're not spending enough time with
their kids or if they're spending time with their kids their intimate
relationships not doing so well because it's the nature of human beings to focus
on areas they feel comfortable with and strong in and give those time and the
areas they don't feel so strong and they go I don't have time for it
but they really say because I don't feel very confident in that area so what's an
area of your life that you are not as happy with
I mean it's healthy honestly to look at areas and say I don't like it I want
more this whole concept of a breakthrough is about how do I close the
gap between where I am right now and that's what we're here to do is like
here's what I want to be here's where I am it's healthy to see there's a gap
that makes me have this hunger this drive to grow to feel alive to expand as
a human being so what scenario you're not pleased with
is it your body is it your finances is it your career is it your spiritual life
or lack thereof in terms of feeling connected in that area is it your kids
like what's the area what's the area that's not where you want it to be and
then answer for a moment why aren't you happy with that area of your life right
now why specifically today are you not happy with that area of your life at
this stage of your time of your life again you can stop this and write it
down might be useful for you or if you're gonna keep it running you stop it
and you'll turn it right back on I'll kick into it do that now or if you kept
it running then just give you what happens I have people
write this down and they don't like this exercise so much oh and I like my body
or I don't like my finances I don't like my career I don't like the person I'm in
a relationship with I don't like myself the way I'm in relationships why they
write it all down how people share back and forth I call on people and the
lessons pretty clear I tell people advance here's the formula for
unhappiness I'll show you before you do anything
else when your life conditions when your life conditions the way you're living a
life today does not match it doesn't equal your blueprint your story of how
it's supposed to be then you're gonna have disappointment frustration or pain
if your life is way different than the way you think it's supposed to be you
can have enormous pain if it's a little different you might feel stressed make
sense so people stand up and I said tell me you know what's the you're not happy
with the person says well you know I'm really not happy with my finances and I
go why and they say because I'm doing worse now than I was five years ago I
made mistakes in the market and at this stage of my life I should have this much
money and I don't have it and I don't know how to change it and it's making me
crazy and why are they crazy you say well
because they don't have their economic needs met no you cannot have your
economic needs met and you could still be okay but when you have an idea this
is what my need is and I did the wrong thing my life doesn't match how I'm
supposed to be that's when people get a little crazy so you think about it if
you grew up taking care of folding your own clothes making your own meals going
to the store doing the grocery shopping cleaning the bedroom cleaning the house
vacuuming taking out the trash and you did that your whole life then if you
have to do that later on you don't feel like you have economic pain because you
don't have a maid but if you grew up an environment where everything was done
for you you never have to work and now suddenly you have to work incredibly
hard to just pay enough money to pay your bills and all of a sudden food is
building up and the house is dirty and your clothes aren't folded and nothing
matches you might find yourself really angry and frustrated because you have a
different story about how life's supposed to be than how it is
someone else to say well I'll tell you why because I'm in a situation now where
you know I'm 30 pounds everything I should be should be the key word there
are people there are people in all cultures who love being big there are
people that walk around and someone else might think they're massively overweight
but they're gone I own this honey and they really truly they match their
blueprint big is beautiful because their ideas big is beautiful I'm big
that's beautiful matches my blueprint rock and roll I'm happy as can be
somebody else can look like a twig and be stressed out saying I hate my body
because their blueprint says I should be the skinniest thing on earth and I'm not
skinny enough am I making sense when your life conditions don't match your
blueprint you're gonna have pain but here's when you suffered when I ask
people who here has been through the dark night of the soul
who's been here in a situation where you feel like like like life life isn't
worth living or we feel like a pain that just will never go away and I'll people
write down those experiences like Joaquin so you'll begin to understand
what the issue is I'm talking about here what keen if you recall was in a
situation where this man felt like there was no reason to live he couldn't work
he couldn't do anything his life was worthless why did he think that because
he had a blueprint and his blueprint said I need be an NBA basketball player
or at least a professional basketball player I need to be able to make money
and have this great lifestyle because that's what makes me worthwhile as a
human being that's what makes my family respect me my mother my uncle's my aunts
I am the successful one in the family and I make the money I support everybody
he's a good man he didn't come just to be successful he took care of his mother
his families he tried to be an inspiration for people
Joaquin Hawkins is a man it was always going out on his free time and training
kids and showing them the pathway to freedom how they could play basketball
and get free like he did and get out of the inner city so this man is not a
selfish man but he knew this is the way to be worthwhile this is the way to be
able to give to people this is the way to take care of your family and all of a
sudden one night what happened that way was taken from him he has a stroke and
another night his life conditions make it impossible to be who he has to be or
he feels like he's working to get it we have an identity we have a story of how
we're supposed to be and if life somehow gets in the way of that story we feel
pain but if we feel we have no control that's when we go into suffering see
it's one thing to say my life doesn't match my blueprint I gotta lose weight
that might stress you out or my life doesn't match my blueprint I'm not in a
relationship I got to get in one that might motivate you even you might not
like it but you're gonna find a way to get on with or my career doesn't matter
I should be you could change it but when you start believing that your life
doesn't match your blueprint and you have no control to change it you're
helpless that's when people suffer and so this week for your breakthrough it's
a chance for you to start to take a look at your blueprint anywhere you're really
having pain Hey look if you're doing great in some area of your life
celebrate of course and I'm sure there are many areas you are but life is
really a seriously growth spurts I mean two things in life make you feel alive
growing and giving and what's really wonderful about this man Joaquin is he
was constantly groaning trying to get better trying to be a better team made a
better basketball player think about it when he didn't make the team's and
didn't make the NBA he didn't give up he worked even harder the guy was always
striving striving to become something and he
became it and he achieved it and then life took it from him
isn't that the common denominator with so many of the people and the stories of
this six-part series that you saw these six specials I mean Frank and Kristen
had a blueprint of what life was supposed to be about we're supposed to
get married to have children and we're gonna top our own business and all of a
sudden life doesn't match the blueprint and suddenly there's depression because
in their case they said there's nothing we could do but they were wrong they
were wrong because they discovered that Frank discovered I can make a difference
my wife the chair even though I didn't create this NIM asked for this chair
does not define me I can become more than I was before I can have the impact
on my life I can have children we had to change his blueprint because we couldn't
change all the conditions of his life does that make sense I couldn't get him
to physically walk again maybe someday he will but we can't count on that well
we gotta count on is that he can be fulfilled by seeing he isn't helpless
that I did that to a series of experiences that violated what he
thought he couldn't do the same thing was true with almost every one of the
people we worked with it's um well and in Joaquin's example it was also true
Akeem said why I can't ever have this quality of life again because I'm not a
professional basketball player and he was locked into that mindset and all of
us get lost at times but to his credit to assist them steps
we were able to break him out of that we were get him to see that he doesn't
helped us this here's your choice watch this now if you're suffering if you're
in pain your life doesn't match how you think it should be and you think you're
helpless to change it now you have only three choices choice one blame something
that's what fucking get people and he blamed his coach blade what
happened to him and of course these things were outside his control but he
blamed his coach that big part of the healing if you watch the session was
bringing his coaching and getting into see and he you know what all that anger
all that resentment inside of you are key a it's not based on the truth and B
that Nelson Mandela said you know having resentment the we're soul is like
drinking poison and hoping that your enemy will die then work that way but
when Joaquin was able to break out his breakthrough was a change in perception
to realize this coach wasn't stopping me I just felt like I lost everything and
so I don't know how to change it so I'm looking for something to be mad about
someone to blame so so I don't have to blame myself or I don't have to feel so
helpless cuz when you're angry you don't feel so
helpless you feel strong for the moment even though it's a fake strength when he
was able to make that breakthrough he could stop blaming because these are
three choices when life doesn't match how you think it should be blame
something an event someone else or yourself as we talked about earlier in
the series blame games just destroy you there's no progress in you playing for
the moment you feel okay but nothing changes what are your real choices you
only have two choices in life if life doesn't match your blueprint you either
have to change your life that is you got to say you know what my body isn't there
I'm gonna go work out my relationship is in there I'm gonna change it you know
I'm not making one I gotta make I'm gonna retool I'm gonna get a new skill
I'm gonna go back to school I'm gonna start a business I'm gonna do something
you have to do something to change your life or in order for you to be happy if
you can't change your life you're gonna have to change your blueprint usually in
life it requires a little bit of each does that make sense and if you've
changed your take change your life and change your blueprint you can have an
extraordinary life and what you witness this man do was once he let go of his
anger and his denial once he started to look at things he began to find by
spending time with his family that he was worthwhile being loved while he
played basketball or not of course he'd love to play basketball but professional
basketball is no longer a part of it and we had to get Joaquin to shift that and
Joaquin is a metaphor for all of us because all of us are gonna have times
in our life when what we want or think life should be
like isn't gonna match how life really is those moments if we blame our life
goes into pain if we change we can change our life and match our blueprint
but we have to also know when it's not within our control and that's how we're
able to make a shift and change when our story is for our life what our
expectations are not by lowering them but by changing what that model really
is helping this make sense to you I'll give you a great example
years ago I do a lot of work with businesspeople celebrities people of all
kinds of walks of life and I was dealing with a group of people and they meal a
very very powerful celebrity and without to give that person privacy I won't tell
you too many details we can't figure out exactly who it is but it would be a
person who was very successful as a woman who was extremely attracted by
cultural standards a woman who's had a lot of dear friends a lot of deep
respect so great skill great ability extremely talented quite attractive
quite wealthy in financial terms and lots of great friends this would be for
most people's idea the ultimate blueprint if your life matches that
description you must have an incredible life but ironically this particular
individuals famous as they were was depressed all the time
they had seemingly everything and yet the person was depressed how do you get
depressed when you're smart and you're strong and you're beautiful and you've
got great friends and you're rich and you're famous well it's real simple
people said it I don't know what it is everyone's tried to help her she's been
on the through counseling she's got all these different drugs nothing's working
she's taking antidepressants and she's still depressed which is not uncommon by
the way because if you change the way you feel physically but you still see
your life doesn't match how you think it should be at some level and you feel
like you're helpless to change it you're gonna be depressed so I said bring her
to me I said I can help her I know that sounds like hyperbole but I absolutely
can help her well how do you know that Tony because I already know what the
problem is I know if someone's depressed it's because they feel helpless because
their life doesn't match how they think it should be I just didn't know what her
blueprint is but we'll find out what it is and we'll either help her change your
life or Whopper change your blueprint or both
long story short and very quickly I'll tell you the core of it she came to me
and she spent maybe the first half an hour telling me apologizing saying I
know I should be happier I know it's silly for me to be depressed I don't
know why I'm so depressed I I know I should be grateful for what I have and I
am grateful it was all these reasons why she knows she should feel good but still
didn't I try to finally explain to her Lissa I don't care about that I care
about you the fact that you're not happy has
nothing to do with what you have or don't have the fact that you're not
happy is that your life doesn't match the way you think it should be and you
have some idea of how you think it should be and worse if you're this
depressed after all this time you feel like you can't do anything you have no
power to change it you feel helpless and she looked at me in a certain way and I
said so what is that what did you want your life to be like she goes well it
sounds stupid I said I sound stupid to me she said well I don't know I just
always since I was a little girl dreamed that I would be married and I'll have
three basically perfect children and they would love me totally and my above
my husband he loved me and I said okay so how's that working for you so far and
she said well I think you know was pretty famous person she said I'm
divorced twice I have no children and now EX age and to give you a clue that
age would be an age where having a child your own natural child at least barring
a medical miracle is not going to happen so I said to her well why don't you just
adopt just no no no no no that's not it and so what I had to dig under is
remember we talked and one of the earlier sessions about there's the
surface problem and then there's the deeper desire or need so I said to her I
said well what if you couldn't have the husband but you could have the kids and
she smiled and she said I'd take that I said well why not adopted kitchen cuz
now it has to be my own blood children I kept digging to find out what was
behind her blueprint because your blueprint is just a projection of what
you think you need to be happy but as human beings were notoriously
ineffective at knowing that's gonna make us out so much what we think we're gonna
make is happily to get there we go is this all there is so many things that we
think are gonna make us miserable we can never deal with we go through it we can
handle it we're not good at projecting these
things or crabs as studies have shown so I said to her well what what are you
hoping to get from these three children why do they have to be your blood
children and she finally said well because they're my blood children I know
they'll always love me don't you never leave me
what was she looking for unconditional uh she had this big blueprint that said
white house picket pants three children perfect husband you know all these
different things but what was behind map was a need and need to feel like she
could have loved that would be certain and wouldn't go away so I can help her
meet that need as I said to her I said well maybe one reason you don't have a
husband is because every time you look at what you're trying to figure out if
he's gonna get you those three kids in time and how that's gonna happen and
maybe he feels little stressful well you're looking at in this way because he
can feel what's going on behind your bed even if he doesn't know what the words
are and she started laughs because I guess I've probably been that way a good
portion of my life and she goes people wonder you know why I'm so uptight
I say you're uptight because you were felt like you're running out of time
trying to meet some picture but I said all you really want is love
I said don't channel I love I know I have tell me about your friends and
gradually I got her to start seeing this love that she was trying to get was
already here it didn't match the picture maybe maybe we could paint a new picture
of what life could really be like and make sure that picture met her deepest
needs that's basically we did Joaquin Joaquin wanted to be a professional
basketball player cuz he loved basketball yes but also because he
wanted to be that man who was a leader he wanted to be a man who was the good
man he wanted to be the one who brought energy to people he want to be the man
people would look up to you want to be the man who could take care of his
family and style all of his family not just his daughters and his wife but
other people as well underneath it all he wanted to know that he mattered and
through the process that you saw in this show he began to find out that he didn't
need to be angry at the world that yes his blueprint was taken from him but his
soul and his ability to be a special human being and he could touch other
people was not taken from him that may be his real gift was his ability to
inspire young kids his ability to get himself to do whatever it took how do
you become a professional basketball player
unbelievable discipline unbelievable Drive he started bringing that to
picking up trash on the game started to change he started that fun Mary could
come home and take care of his kids and pay his bills that doesn't solve
everything but it gives him a way to suddenly regain himself when he sat
around with all of his family you saw part of those
if you watch little areas of browsing this week you'll see some more scenes
from his family where you see him beginning to realize they love me
whether I'm rich or poor they love me we're a professional basketball player
or not they love me that's what he was really after and when he got that it
allowed him to let go and say I can do other things that doesn't mean he won't
have challenges we're all gonna have challenges in our life it doesn't mean
that at times he won't was she's doing more but he's no longer stuck he's
broken through because he now knows I have control I can change my life or I
can change my blueprint and what I do I can fulfill it I can start to fail that
aliveness now here's the trap what do you think happens once you fulfill your
blueprint regularly once you figure out how to do what you always dreamed of you
always dream to live a certain way and now you're living that way live in that
way live in that way every day well the human nervous system human spirit needs
to grow so pretty soon you'll get bored with that and you'll come up with a new
blueprint that's part of the part of life that's exciting see if you and I
from this day forward are gonna be happy just remember we've said it takes two
things grow and give a meaningful life comes from growing that sense of
progress and it comes from having life not just be about me but about we doing
something that makes me feel connected to other people besides myself that
growth that sense of contribution fills a deep spiritual need that we all have
if you are unhappy in your life you got three choices really to blame that's not
a choice it's not gonna work don't blame someone else don't blame you that don't
blame yourself just figure out what you're gonna do to change your life
that's my specialty if you like my coaching or my team's coaching come
visit with us come doing event come get a coach come through a program it will
guide you through it more than just a few minutes like this and we'll do it
directly an environment that will shift you or change your blueprint you're
gonna have to rewire what's going on inside and that's what we focus on as
well so I hope this journey has been an interesting one for you I hope it's
opened up your eyes to what it takes to go from where you are to where you want
to be it takes changing your emotional pattern to change bringing presence to
your life it takes realizing you have no problems compared to somebody else and
putting your life in perspective it takes the ability to deal with those
extreme stresses that happen in your life by
questioning your limiting beliefs and again if we'd love to coach you and show
you how to change those in a permanent way where it happens automatically just
like lifting weights so often till the muscle is always there and you find
yourself able to follow through it takes for you to be able to figure out how to
deal with crisis and how to turn it around
it takes facing your fear it takes pushing yourself through what used to
stop you it takes putting yourself in a position
where you connect to what's more important than just yourself what you
value than just yourself and it takes I think in this case also the ability to
realize that no matter what happens to you you're more than that moment you're
more than the story you think you're supposed to be and that even when you're
not matching what you think you need to be maybe there's a reason for that maybe
you're having to find a different part of yourself that's gonna fulfill you in
a much deeper level sometimes failing to get your goal gives you your destiny I
can't tell you how many people I've known of the years who have an idea of
what they thought their life was supposed to be like and they didn't
achieve it they felt miserable and upset and frustrated and one day an opening
happened and they went oh my god thank God that didn't happen
I think it's Garth Brooks had a great song and it's a song about when he was
in high school and he was in love with this girl infatuated with her and she
didn't even know that he existed and he prayed to God every day that she would
notice him that she would fall in love with him and then sure enough she never
did he was so disappointed his blueprint didn't match his life didn't match it
because she didn't even know he existed and he felt this suffering he could do
nothing to turn it around well 15 years later he became a guy named Garth Brooks
somebody everybody knew and he could rock you know stadiums with his energy
and his song and his music and he goes back to being this high school reunit it
was his 15 year even if I remember correctly I remember the exact year but
all I remember is he said he saw that woman that he was so obsessed by he was
looking forward to seeing her and now he was Garth Brooks and he met her and
after he met her and spent some time with her he wrote a song called thank
God for unanswered prayers sometimes not getting your blueprints
the best thing that ever happened because the disappointment drives you to
find something more important inside of you or not getting it makes you look for
another aspect of your life a spiritual aspect of a family aspect a physical
aspect if you can just trust that life doesn't happen to you it happens for you
then you can find in any situation a benefit that can take your life to the
next level I don't care if you're Frank and Christian I don't care if you're you
know Mandy and Scott I don't care if you're Joaquin and Kim every one of us
in our life is gonna be faced situations where it feels like we have total trauma
something that's been taken from us the real question is what are you gonna do
with it some people just live in the story of what they don't have and they
have the right to do that the Frank and Kristin lived in pain and felt bad we'd
all say they have the right to do it it's a difference doing what you have
the right to do and what you deserve to give yourself and others we have the
ability to transcend whatever happens to us there's something called
post-traumatic growth very few people know about it - people go through the
same stress ones destroyed the other grows what's the difference the people
that grow will not give up they don't have any excuses they find the way to
break through whatever it takes and when they do three things happen number one
they realize who they really are and what they're capable of they realize
there's so much stronger than they thought they were and number two they
deepen all their relationships you want to know who really cares about to who
you love and it loves you go through some tragedy go through some
hard times all your Facebook friends go away your real friends your real family
shows up for you and you show up for them and it deepens your relationships
and the third thing happens if you can push yourself through and break through
whatever challenges life gives you each time you have a breakthrough you get
stronger and it almost like builds a psychological immunity in you we're
suddenly all of a sudden it's like stuff happens you know stuffs gonna happen and
you're not scared of it anymore cuz after you've been through a stroke
after you've been through you know losing the use of some of your body your
senses after you lose a family member and you break through to that you get to
the other side it's like give me your best shot life it's almost like there's
this psychological immunity that says I'm ready for whatever life will give me
I don't want challenges but if they're here I know I can handle them that
strength of spirit is what creates a sense of freedom and joy in life and
that strength of spirit basically comes from living a life where you are
constantly a neverending feeling your way to improve yourself and to help
others that's my mission and if we can serve you again in the future I hope
you'll check us out there's three ways you can continue to participate with us
you can come to an event come have an experience with us live in a weekend at
our unleash the power within or our date with destinies and you can find it's
very different than just sitting here talking to you quietly sitting in front
of your computer screen it's a rock and roll environment it's like going to the
ballpark in heaven one person sitting there talking to you versus being in the
ballpark of the rock and roll concert you know with 50,000 there's an energy
and a power that comes from its second is there's immersion here we talked for
an hour there's distractions and emails there it's total focus and we go for
immersion we're literally what we did here over six weeks few little
conversations all that happens over and over again multiple times a day you get
that shift so come to an event or call up and get a coach we have people that
you can work with and have a free coaching session and make sure it's
really valuable for you but these are people that can check in with you to
help make sure you break through you make the changes you want to make and
your career your finances your body and your motions or whatever area matters to
you and finally lastly and probably most importantly every day you got to feed
your mind cuz everyday most of us are turning on
you know some form of news it shows up in our pocket in our blackberries or
iPods or our iPhones I should say it shows up on you know on your computer
constantly it chases us in it rarely does a good idea interrupt you really
what you have to do is pursue the ideas pursue the experiences they're gonna
change your life and we have a way to do it call that time no extra time a wave
where you can keep feeding your mind the stuff that really matters with some
products or services so if you're interested in any of those things be
sure to click on your interest of the event your interest in having a free
coaching session or maybe try one of our audio programs because the other
challenge here is with video got to sit here potentially and watch me but with
audio you can do it while you're working out you can do it while you're cleaning
the house you can do it while you're driving in the car while you're getting
to work we'd love to continue serving in any way we can I know I've gone wrong in
this session but I really want you to think about how can I get my life the
way I want it to be the way I do it is I figure out what my blueprint is and I
update it for what life is I changed my life match my blueprint and suddenly my
life feels full and a life thank you for the time that we spent together here
I've really enjoyed our time and I hope that this break do series remind you to
never settle for less than you can be never settle for less than you can give
or you can share LIVESTRONG loop of passion and god bless
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