
Because one person is qualified to tell you what your purpose is and that's you
what I'm about to say in this video is not factual they're not all truth it's
just what I believe by all means take the ones that work for you and discard
the ones that don't that being said let's discover how to find your purpose
in life instantly starting with the first idea now number one you are more
than one thing it's so easy in life to think about your purpose and think about
one thing your career what you do for a living but you might have so high
expectations of getting fulfilment from this one thing that when you don't meet
it you're often devastated and disappointed and here's the downfall to
having a one thing mentality let's say you've done some soul-searching and
you've discovered you're going to be a dentist you go to the dental school you
now have your own practice you're super jazzed up about being a dentist but one
morning you come in early you make a mistake because you're tired you give a
patient too much novocaine and it kills them their parents sue you you lose your
license and you can never be a dentist again
with this one thing mentality you would think that this individual because they
cannot be a dentist have lost purpose in their life I believe this is nonsense
I think there are so many jobs you can do in life so many skill sets you have
that can add value to people plus you're more than your career anyway you could
be a father you could be a mother you could be a brother you can be a sister
you could be a friend there's so many avenues in life to bring your life
purpose and when you do this with one thing those expectations for that one
thing don't get met and you're often left disappointed you are so much more
than one thing number to build an empire many of us have this need for importance
we're driven by our ego to be the tallest building in the world because
before the tallest were the best and when we were the best we feel great
about ourselves but I've found that when you do this when you're competing with
other people you often feel you're never enough oftentimes there are other people
out there that are taller than you and it can make you feel inadequate that's
why I've chosen to switch my mentality to going from building the tallest
building to building an empire not using your skill sets and talents to build
yourself up but to use your skill sets and talents to build others up to bring
value to their lives it's a choice you have to make tallest building or
building an empire number 3 open your hearts door I'm sure when you leave for
work in the morning you lock your door because you have valuable stuff inside
and you don't want someone to come in and take it if you don't want a purpose
in your life you're probably doing this with your heart as well you lock the
door on your heart there is a benefit no one can come in and take the love but
the downfall is that love can't come out I believe there's love and abundance in
you and when your door is shut it cannot come out if you have the courage and
you're going to be vulnerable and open your heart and give the world who you
truly are the love that's inside you the world really craves this love that's
inside you if you open the door I believe you'll find your purpose and
you'll realize you have nothing to be afraid of
someone could take your love but it's in abundance the love you put out comes
back tenfold and when your hearts open that's when you find your purpose that's
when you're living a purposeful life next feel fully this idea was inspired
by transformational speaker Kyle sees he said we're not here to feel happy we're
here to feel fully it's up to you what you want to do with your life if you
want to pursue a life of pleasure and happiness that is dependent upon
circumstances and happenings or to experience the roller coaster emotion of
life and truly enjoy it embracing the highs and the lows one example could be
when you're lonely maybe someone just broke up with you that you've been
dating for a long time instead of processing it you seek distraction
watching TV eating ice cream trying to find the next person to fill that void
but what if life is about processing the highs and the lows what if you just sat
down and realize that it's okay to be alone you'd no longer be afraid of
feeling these lows and you'll find that these low moments often take you to your
highest highs I've made a video on how to overcome loneliness I'll leave a card
to that now but let's move on to the next one and lastly experience your life
many of us make this mistake of thinking there's no way I can find my purpose
someone out there who's wiser and smarter has to tell me I need to
discover it in the video or a book it's not gonna work
life is about experiences you don't know what you like you don't know what you
don't like you don't know what you're good at you don't know what you're not
good at until you go out and experience it all I'm saying is it's so easy to be
a spectator in life to watch others living out their dreams doing wonderful
things than thinking that you can't do it we're waiting for a time that is most
comfortable for you I challenge you today whatever it is that you're afraid
of or something you're curious about go out and do it experience it and whether
success or failure it'll be a learning experience and it'll make you a better
person and when you're becoming a better person
you're living a purposeful life if you found this video helpful and want more
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