How to Make any Man Miss You - 7 Steps that Always Work!

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How to Make a man miss you- 7 steps that always work!
In this video, you will learn how to make a man miss you, the 7 steps that always work…
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OK… on to the 7 tips for making any man miss you.
missing someone means that you are yearning for physical or emotional intimacy from them,
but not getting it.
Perhaps you're in a relationship and you're just not feeling appreciated.. or maybe you're
in a long distance relationship and you want to see him more.
Or maybe you've just had a falling out or recent break up and want to reconcile…
Either way, these 7 steps will certainly get his attention and increase his yearning for
you.…
so, without further ado… here are the top 7 ways to make a guy miss you…
#7 Start Saying NO In other words, don't always be available
for him by always saying yes when he calls and asks you to go out… especially if he's
calling with short notice.
Saying no to his requests for plans sends him the message that you have other engagements
or commitments that are taking priority… at least at this time when he's asking.
It also forces him to recognize that he must make advanced plans because you have other
things going on and you're not just sitting by the phone waiting for his calls.
He will also begin to recognize that he does NOT get the privilege of calling you or asking
you to go out when he feels the whim.
He has to earn back that "high priority" status.
So Make other plans and he will start to remember how you used to be available for him, but
now you've moved on and are keeping busy.
Oh, and I'm not suggesting that you play games and hide behind the phone.
Go out with your friends and have fun again, away from your man.
Do something for you…
take up a new hobby or do something that you enjoy.
Remember, Being unavailable some of the time is going to make you feel better while driving
him a little crazy.
#6 Be a little bit Mysterious..
That means you don't have to share every detail of your daily activities with him.
You don't need to over explain every little thing that you're doing… you want him
to wonder.. to develop intrigue… share bits and pieces of your life slowly.. and make
him earn your trust.
So, when you're going out to dinner with your parents, tell him you're going out
to dinner… you don't have to tell him who you're going with… unless he asks..
When you have plans with friends…and he asks you on a date last minute.. tell him
you have plans with friends.. you don't have to go above and beyond to make him feel
at ease about what you're doing.. remember… you want him to appreciate you and your time…
and you want him to remember your value as a friend.
So… let him wonder and if he needs to ask, let him do that too.
#5 Use social media to highlight your fun and independent life.
Sometimes you can use social media to your advantage by indirectly showing him that you
have an independent, full and fun life apart from him.
So, let him see this new, independent you via social media.
Whether you are out to dinner with friends or attending a rock concert, take fun photos
and share them on your social media.
Do not fabricate elaborate, fake posts.
Be you, be fun, and be authentic.
He will want to be by your side for every new adventure.
Guys want to make sure you have a life outside of him and what better way to show him this
than by sharing your adventures with him, indirectly..
So use your social media to update everyone of the fun you're having and this will definitely
cause him to pay attention.
Ok… now we are getting to the most important ones… so keep watching because these are
more impactful
4.
Stop initiating communications When you miss someone, it is hard to not reach
out to that person because You want to be connected and communicating.
But if you want a man to really miss you, you must pull away.
So, Do not initiate calls or texts to him.
Eventually, he will recognize the difference and wonder why you've suddenly gone silent
on him.
Let him feel a little down and realize he was happier when things were different.
Your silence will speak volumes and he will usually initiate contact again pretty quickly.
Oh, and Make him wait before you return his calls and texts.
I understand the urge to respond back immediately, especially if you've been waiting to hear
from him for a while.
But Taking some time before Responding to his contact sends the message that you are
busy and not just sitting by your phone waiting for him to reach out.
Have patience and take your time before responding… doing so will certainly increase his yearning
for you.
3.
PRIORITIZE YOUR NEEDS…
PUT YOURSELF FIRST.
Sometimes people go out of their way to show the person they're dating how much they
like them.
In doing so, they feel like they don't want to disappoint them… they jump at every opportunity
to talk, hang out, text… and Usually that's a good thing.. but not if you're trying
to peak his interest… trying to get him to miss you more.
In this case, you need to take the attention off of him, and put it back onto yourself.
Take care of you first… pick up some hobbies, make and KEEP plans with your friends.. fill
up your social calendar….
And when he calls last minute to make plans…
Oops.. sorry, I have plans… this will make him prioritize and plan his time with you.
2.
Connect with him on an emotionally intimate level.
When you are together… when you're spending time with him, create a safe place for him
to be emotionally intimate…
Think back to a time when you felt really close and connected with your partner — or
a time when you felt you could tell your partner your deepest secret and it would be accepted.
We all need that deep connection with someone, and that deep and wonderful feeling of intimacy
flourishes in an atmosphere of safety.
We open up when we feel safe.
We take risks when we feel safe.
So Create a safe zone for him to be freely expressive-- To be himself.
That means being a person who is very accepting, caring and compassionate.
When he's connected with you on an emotionally intimate level, he will certainly miss you
when he feels disconnected, right?
After all, you want him to be lonely for you… and Loneliness is the feeling we get in our
heart when we want intimacy and to be connected with someone, but no one is available or willing
to connect.
1.
Give him something to miss…
OK.. so that sounds ridiculous, right?
But simply put, you've got to be that person that he wants to be with the most.
you have to rock his world in a way that no one else can.. and leave him wanting more..
leave him craving more. and the only one who can satisfy that craving... that need, is
you... so you must create that dynamic... that feeling that he can't get anywhere else.
Every time he thinks of you, hes going to be thinking about the fun things.. he going
to associate you with everything fun.
And this is number 1 ?….. don't talk about missing him… or telling him you're going
to miss him..
don't let him think you've become too attached or needy… let him wonder if you're
actually missing him.
Then he'll be the one watching these videos.. ok..
I can't believe I just said that.. but yeah.
So, Keep things light and fun..even though you're disappointed by the fact that he
doesn't show you he misses you, you have to hide that disappointment… and keep things
light and fun and carefree.
Not once, but everytime.. light, fun, easygoing, confident….
Not disappointed, frustrated or insecure about where things are going.
Look, These suggestions aren't anything that you haven't heard before…
But why are they so difficult for some people to do?
Well… because they feel counterintuitive and risky…
I can hear the reasons and excuses now… if I'm not available he'll find someone
else, if I'm not responsive he'll find someone
who is, If I don't call him back, he will think I don't like him….
If I seem less interested, he will become less interested or find someone who is more
interested….
Yes.. all of them feel risky… you're fearing the worst thing that could happen… that
he will become less interested, right?
You're worried that It wont work.. and think I should just be myself… but All of these
excuses are driven by fear.. the fear of being rejected.
So, as I've said in other videos, the most important thing you can do to increase the
quality of your relationship… is to overcome your fear of being rejected… overcome your
fear of the relationship ending..
And in order to do so, you must adopt the belief that if It's meant to happen, it
will… if you're not compatible, its not going to work out in the long run anyway.
Rejection doesn't mean there is something wrong with you….
It simply means that this is not the right person for you…
period.
Oh.. and speaking of that.. are you struggling with a relationship or dating situation that
you need some help with?
I coach people all over the world both over the phone or though video conferencing.
So send me an email at antonioborrello@icloud.com … and perhaps we can work together one on
one.
I'll also include my email address in the comment section below.
if a relationship is meant to be… if he is the person for you, if you are really that
compatible, then implementing these suggestions will certainly make him miss you more…
That's for sure…
But if it's not right… if he's not the right one for you, if there are too many differences,
or if he's not the committing type… nothing you can do will change that outcome… it
just wont work… and that's ok.
The tips may seem pretty easy, but you need to stick to them; be disciplined.
Don't give in to the temptation of answering his calls or texts too fast.
Even if you've been dating for years, put in some effort and you'll have him missing
you and wanting you more.
So, Have I missed any good suggestions for making a man miss you?
Have you tried any of these suggestions before?
How did they work.
I'd love to hear your stories..
Leave a comment below and I'll be sure to respond to all of them.
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