Wingman Etiquette | How To Be A Good Wingman For Your Buddy

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- Good afternoon, gentleman
I'm Ollie, it's Make Me That Guy
Today's video is about wingmanship etiquette, okay?
By that I mean, how to be a good wingman,
or how to bounce and bubble off your partner,
your companion, that dude you go out
chatting chicks with, having fun, drinking,
going on the pool with.
Alright, there are certain easy ways you can demonstrate
high value, you can make sure you have a great night,
and be a really desireable guy to speak to
with a great, especially a great first few
moments of the interaction
of you and your mate approaching women
the all important first few moments
okay so I say the all important first moments
because it's the approach
and the way you come across and your vibe
in the first two or three minutes
which really sets the tone for the rest of the conversation
you're in with, you know, the object of your affection
women you may be approaching
okay so after those first minutes
usually in a social scenario it's very hard to have
a cross three, four, five-way conversation in a group
you tend to then turn off and have
a smaller conversation with one or two girls
one on one, and it doesn't become a free flowing
group conversation but at first
you most definitely have engage the whole group of women
or both of them and thus, this is good
wingmanship etiquette, alright
you're gonna need a wingman most when you're
speaking to girls in two's or groups, obviously
having a wingman for a girl on her own
is totally unnecessary, approach her on your own
never approach with a guy, with your mate
cuz its just a bit rapey and scary
two of you trying to (mumbles), alright
so this is for when girls are in two's or more.
Okay so the first thing is knowing your wingman
know his strengths and weaknesses
know what he does
and learn how to demonstrate massive high value
the trap which so many guys fall into
when they're out on the pull
they're trying to look for chicks, right?
Is competing, ok?
Don't compete!
They wanna put their wingman down
they wanna show that they're the alpha male
that they're better, they're cooler
they'll tease each other in a negative way
they'll try and speak over their mate
they'll try and get in close proximity to the hot girl
or capture her, alright this is not it boys;
you've gotta show the love, yeah, for your wingman
because if you love your best mate or your wingman
the guy you're out with, you show untold respect
you pick him up the whole time, it shows
that you are not somebody who is jealous
or has a low self-esteem, or is competitive
it's all incredibly attractive
just a cool easy breezy guy
and what will be will be
whoever gets the girl is gonna get the girl
and you love your guy, you love your boy
and you don't care about hot girls
they can all fuck off!
The main thing to you is your relationship
with your homeboy, right?
And that's totally true
why are you gonna start taking the piss out of your mate
or putting him down or competing with him
for the affection, or the attention
of a hot chick you've just met?
Bullshit, always support your mate to the fucking end
and show his high value and he can do the same for you
and that way you're going to be a solid unit
and that's incredibly attractive because people like
the comradery of strong men bouncing off each other.
Makes alot of sense
if you're competitive, jealous, you've got the wrong wingman
get him out of there
find someone who supports you properly and reciprocates
those values when you're expressing his good points
his finer points, to women you wanna speak to
so how are we gonna do that?
Alright, first things first, teasing and exaggeration
are the two main ways we're gonna do that, alright?
So let's have a think
I'm actually gonna use a live case study scenario.
Alright, I had two clients last Saturday
who I helped with wingman shit
they actually don't even know each other!
They've met once at seminars we do
on these kinds of topics and fashion and social life
and they wanted to go out, chat the chicks
but they didn't have any good wings
because one's come out of a long term marriage
one's from a foreign country
and just didn't have people to hang out with
so I introduced them to each other
and taught them the basics of how they're gonna go out
chat to women, and demonstrate this high value
and bounce off each other, alright?
So let's take these two guys, one of them,
is an IT guy he works from home on his computer
and one of them is a scientist, ok?
these aren't particularly glamorous jobs
these don't ooze sexuality.
It's not like one of them is a cage fighter
and the other one is an astronaut
nothing particularly interesting, right?
But we can make those job descriptions interesting
especially if we don't say them ourselves
cuz that's called showing off, and showing off's not cool
but if your mate says it, and he bigs it up
and he gives it a, embroiders it
he makes it bigger and better
that shows that he's funny and energetic
and it also makes you cool
because you're not bragging
and you're simply
someone who's just simply interpreting your life
your occupation, in a way,
which is gonna show you as high value.
So, let's go back to them
we've got a scientist
and we've got an IT guy
let's call them Tim and Tom,
we've got Tim our scientist
and Tom our IT Expert, alright?
So first things first
we're gonna approach using group approach techniques.
Made a video on that check it out.
Use the tips in the other videos to approach
groups of women, in that video I showed you, right?
Once you've approached, you're gonna get into conversation
so you have to demonstrate high value instantly
the first thing you're going to do, is say
So anyway guys, have you ever met a math professor?
'Cause Tim is a math professor, he's like a crazy scientist,
he's like Einstein, he's gonna take over the world
world domination is his aim, no seriously he's a scientist!
So, you're not just saying he's a scientist, he
works in a lab which he does
he's fricking boring, he wears a labcoat.
You're not gonna say that
he's a nutty professor, world domination
alright, and then he's gonna say I forgot
who Tim and Tom are but you know, you get the idea
so one of these two, shouldn't have called them
both similar names, should I?
I'm just failing out here
So anyway, you're gonna say,
Yeah he's a nutty professor!
Big up his job make it funny
he's an evil scientist, he's gonna take over the world
and he's gonna go
oh, my God, he's such a dick, yes I am a scientist
I don't think I'm gonna quite take over the world,
but anyway yes I'm a scientist, but what about him anyway?
he's taking the piss out of me, right?
This motherfucker here is a digital nomad,
you know what he does?
He sits at home on his ass, in his slippers,
which are pink by the way, and he just taps on his computer
all day and makes thousands of pounds
and travels around the world working,
How awesome is that?
He was in Japan last week,
probably, you know, sitting on the sofa,
making more money than most people make in a year.
So now you've shown his high value
and he bounces back and goes aw, come on bro,
please, more money?
The mad scientist over here
works at one of the biggest pharmaceutical companies
in the U.K., he's got more money than i've got
in my whole life, dude, he could really buy
this club if he wanted to, anyway no more talk about money
ladies but so what do you guys do?
Bang!
Look how I just expressed two shitty jobs!
Not shitty, but not particularly sexy
they're not male models or footballers
you know, they ain't ballers
they're just two guys, intellectuals, ok?
suddenly you've shown you're funny
there's alot of love for each other,
you're bouncing off each other, bubbling having a laugh
teasing, always tease about positive things
the minute it's malicious, you're losing
these are positive, these are your careers
it's about money, success, travel, intellect, right?
Never tease your friends about negative things.
Tease them about the good things, it shows high value
and the fact that you're demonstrating high value
in a humorous way means you're really desirable
you're not a showoff, it's just what it is
you're having a laugh, and that just happened to come up
but you made it come up, 'cause you're clever and covert.
So, that's the first introduction
then ask about their jobs, and then you come back
to the same scenario every time.
It just so happened that the two guys I'm talking
about in this scenario, Tim and Tom, we've forgotten
who the fuck each one is but anyway, you get my drift,
They both also spoke foreign languages
One happened to be French, and one was fluent in Italian
and Spanish, OK?
Pretty cool as well.
So, other things they start doing.
You said you like to travel right?
Oh, yeah he speaks French
Well he speaks Italian and Spanish,
dude we're like a bilingual duo here.
One of them happened to be going traveling for six months
He was doing the whole of South America
Doing the Inca Trail, Maccu Picchu, all that crap, right?
Amazing, really interesting, shows he's got passion
He loves to travel and stuff.
So you can say to them: So, girls...
By the way, no girls in London are ever from England anymore
We're based in London,
if that's not the case in your locality cool
but here the girls (mumbles) foreign.
So you can say: Oh, you guys aren't from England, right
you're not English yea?
So you must love to travel,
How long have you been in London for?
This lucky bastard is off to South America for six months,
it's gonna be so cool, I'm so jealous of him,
he's gonna do all the cultural stuff,
and they'll be like: Wow, that's really cool
and then he will start talking about his travel
and he can ask them about their travels
it's constantly displaying high value.
Does one of you have something they're good at?
If one of you has got killer abs, you can say
well you know what, anyways ladies, you've
gotta check out this guys abs, he's a fuckin' monster,
you could grate cheese on him.
and then you actually physically pull his top up
and he's like: No, no, no stop,
I don't want to show my killer abs he does, trust me.
Of course he wants to show his killer abs
but if he pops them up, himself, he's just a penis
who's showing off, his mate does it
he's hot as fuck, right, he's a hot guy
would never have done that but his mate made him do it
'cause his mate just loves him and the brotherhood
is so strong, they have no animosity or rivalry
if one of you is a good singer, you can be like
oh man, yeah it's really really cool, he's an IT guy
but he's also an amazing singer, have you ever fucking
heard of that?
An IT guy who can sing?
'Cause he can he can play the guitar and everything
he's like the next Ed Sheeran, in fact
I call him Ed Queeran
something silly like that
then you're allowed to tease him
You could call him Ed Queeran then
because you're demonstrating high value
you're telling him how good he is at singing
example of Ed Sheeran,
if he was an ugly little ginger cretin
then if you said oh look at him,
he looks like Ed Sheeran 'innit?
Haha little ginger knob.
Then that would be taking the piss and that is negative
and that's out of order
and you've negged him and you've put him down
never do that, alright?
But if you're using Ed Sheeran
as a metaphor of his singing talent, that's very good.
I doubt very much Ed Sheeran is watching this channel
but if he is, fix up, Swirl your hair out
anyway I'm not making many friends here today am I?
So those are a few examples guys
and this can go into any realm of your life
if your friend has high value in that area
you find out about it
and you make a teasing comment and drop it
into the conversation so the women know
this gives you a lovely, bubbly dynamic
plus it shows high value
and that is how you express yourselves
and your wingman in good wingmanship etiquette.
Ok gentlemen so that was it.
That was good wingmanship etiquette
How to bounce off your boy.
How to show high value.
How to maintain a funny vibe between you
and be a desirable couple of chaps out there
chatting girls up, right?
I'm Ollie, It's Make Me That Guy.
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