Work From Home Mom WAHM Shares: How to Build Confidence in Your Online Business

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hey YouTube happy Thursday jessalyn here welcome back to my work from home mom channel
today's video we're gonna talk about confidence okay I get a lot of messages
on YouTube people that connect with me through social media and people don't
want to be a work from home mom they want to know how to make income every week by posting
ads online helping a market for a very reputable company and a lot of times I
will also get the question do I have to make videos like you do and there's an
answer to this question but it comes kind of in two parts okay the first
answer the first part of that answer is no you don't have to do anything okay
the beauty to starting your own business is that you can run it the way that you
want to I'm not your boss I can't tell you what to do nor am I going to try to
force you to do anything that you're not comfortable with doing however there is
a huge benefit to doing videos and that is that people get to see that you're a
real life person they get to connect with you they get to relate with you
they get to see a glimpse of your personality in your life right like I
put myself out there a lot I think sometimes a showcase you know the more
serious side and then other times you see me just acting like really really
silly but I am Who I am and I'm comfortable with who I am and I credit a
lot of that to online marketing the more that I did videos the more comfortable I
became with doing videos you can't become comfortable doing something
unless you actually do it right so over time I became more comfortable with
putting myself out there and doing videos and as a result of that my
business continued to grow it became more successful because people were able
to connect with me so I'm gonna encourage you at some point to do videos
most times people aren't comfortable doing them in the very beginning which I
totally get because I wasn't either but I do think that is something that you
work towards it's something that you have a you should have a willingness to
do because I really don't know of any successful online marketer or
entrepreneur that was able to achieve success without putting their face out
there so a lot of times if you really want to achieve the the success of an
online marketing business you're gonna have to push yourself outside of your
comfort zone which means you may eventually have to do videos
if you're already doing videos and you're comfortable doing videos just get
in contact with me because you could be making a lot of money online with a
company that I work for but moving on the part about confidence the part about
confidence that's are really really important is that and when you're
comfortable with who you are and you're secure with who you are then all the
haters and life just don't get to you and it's no way to live if you're stuck
in the prison of worrying of what other people think all the time that's no way
to live and I know we live in a world where people are like constantly
knocking each other down and criticizing each other more than they're building
each other up and it's such garbage but to be honest with you when you're in a
place where you're confident with who you are and you're secure with who you
are you know what your purpose is you're passionate about it then none of that
stuff gets to you and it's a really really great way to live in today's
video I'm gonna talk about confidence I'm gonna talk about how to build that
confidence if you're someone that doesn't have confidence in yourself and
you want to know how to do that I'm gonna give you some really simple tips
that hopefully will help you so just make sure you stay tuned
okay guys so let's get to the meat and potatoes let's talk about some things
that are gonna help you to start building your confidence the first thing
that I would recommend is that you should start each day with a grateful
heart so what does that mean to me that means you make a list you put a sticky
note on your mirror you put pictures in front of your face while you're drinking
your coffee and you jam out to some music on your drive to work and you
think and really resonate on the things that you're grateful for so three or
four things everyday really spend the first 20 minutes of your day thinking
about those things putting those things visually in front of your face whether
that's your family whether that's your kids whether it's your house your car
your pets your job whatever it is in your life that you are grateful for
resignate on that for the first part of your day for your morning because how
you start your day usually ends up determining how the rest of your day
goes right so if you're starting off really negative and grumpy the rest of
your days probably gonna stay negative and grumpy the second thing that I would
recommend and it's something that I'm not even perfect at but you should
exercise you should exercise you should take care of your body you should be
mindful of the things that you're eating and that you're drinking you know I lost
40 pounds last year and it made my confidence skyrocket I felt so much
better about myself and when you feel better about yourself and you are not
comparing yourself to everybody else that builds confidence when you like the
way that you look and you like the way that you feel that builds confidence so
even if you don't like exercising which I totally do not like exercising and I
did not exercise to lose the weight I was just very mindful about what I was
eating and how I was dieting and I was able to lose the weight that way but
just get active okay if you don't like cardio we're going to the gym dance
around in your kitchen get up off the couch okay and get active because the
more active you are the more you're building those endorphins the more
you're feeling better and the more confidence you're building the next
thing would be to starve the negativity and feed the positivity this is
something that you've got to get in the habit of doing every day and it is tough
because I'll tell you I used to be a very very
negative person believe it or not very very negative never saw the cup as you
know half-full it was always half-empty somebody would say something cheerful
and I'd be really really annoyed believe it or not it was not a very happy person
and you've gotta learn you gotta get in the habit of shutting those negative
thoughts out of your head when they start to creep in you just gotta shut
them up and shut them off because they just can consume you sometimes and one
of the biggest things that I can recommend that you do is be mindful of
who you're spending your time with they say that you are like the five people
that you spend most of your time with so if you're spending your time with
negative grumpy people that's probably gonna be that's gonna explain why you
might be negative and grumpy too if you're not hanging around people who are
confident in themselves then you are not going to be able to learn from them on
how to be confident yourselves a wonderful thing about online marketing
is that you are surrounded with people who are action takers they want more of
life they're encouraging they're inspired inspiring they are uplifting
and being surrounded by those positive people is really going to help you to
maintain a positive attitude every single day as well and with happy
thoughts comes confidence another thing that I would recommend is to make a goal
or make a couple of goals big or small and accomplish them each day
I mean seriously set goals for yourself and accomplish them so that could be
going grocery shopping like I totally hate grocery shopping because it is a
task especially with a two-year-old that's trying to climb in and out of the
car all the time it can be draining and exhausting and I don't love going to the
grocery store but when I do I feel accomplished refrigerators full I
provided food for the family and it just feels good so set a goal for yourself
whether it's cleaning your house or it is making your bed or it is going
through the whole day without saying a negative comment make a goal for
yourself every single day and accomplish that goal because when you feel
accomplished you are building your confidence another thing I would say is
to invest in some things that make you feel good and this doesn't mean go out
and be reckless and spend $500 on a shopping trip but this means every once
in a while take care of you self-care is not selfish
you cannot give away what you don't have to give away so you've got a
we be able to love yourself and be confident in yourself before you can
help other people love themselves and be confident with themselves so invest in
yourself okay spend time on yourself doing things that make you feel good if
you've got to go and get your toe nails done and that makes you feel good go do
it if you gotta go get a new shirt you know not like a eighty dollar shirt
maybe but let's say like a twenty dollar shirt
go do it whatever is gonna make you feel a little bit better if it's investing
into a ministry or a charity or doing volunteer work doing those things that
make you feel better about yourself are going to build your confidence and the
last thing that I would tell you is to get some self development books like
self development books really truly changed my whole perspective they
changed my mindset I didn't even know that self development books existed
until I started online marketing and two three that comes to mind would be
nothing to prove by Jenny Allen Restless by Jenny Allen and chase the lion by
Mark Patterson and these are Christian based self development books and they
are so empowering when you read them and you allow them to change your mindset
and change your perspective all of the little like little things in life like
the things that you would normally get really stressed out about just kind of
fade away like self development books really help you to realize that life is
so much more worth being miserable and being stuck in a position that you don't
want to be stuck in and being you know maybe financially strapped like these
books give you that inspiration that empowerment that you need and as they
help you to change your mindset and your perspective you become more confident I
hope all of these tips really really helps you out today hopefully they're
making sense I encourage you to implement them every single day write
them down implement them and really actively pursue doing these things to
build your confidence because not only is it gonna help you in business it's
gonna help you in life you know you don't need to be in fear of what people
think of you all the time you are never going to be able to please everyone I I
know that for a fact like I think i annoy people people love me and then I
annoy people and really it doesn't faze me or what I'm doing because I like
I'm passionate I'm passionate about what I do
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for watching I hope you guys all have a blessed day
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Work From Home Mom WAHM Shares: How to Build Confidence in Your Online Business

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