How Long Should A Guy Last In Bed?

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Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com. I get a lot of
questions on this channel and this one seems to come up all the time. How long
should a guy last in bed or you're asking how long should I last in bed?
Well here's the thing, sex has a wide variety. Sex can be
super quick and still fun. Sex can last hours and still be fun. But you probably
want to know what is the average time that sex actually lasts? It all depends
on what the mood is and the situation but a new study revealed that sex that's
too short is 1 to 2 minutes, sex that's adequate is 3 to 7 minutes, sex that's
desirable is 7 to 13 minutes and too long is anywhere from 10 to 30 minutes.
This study was taken by some psychologists who basically did a survey
who worked at thousands and thousands of patients to get an idea of how people
view sex and of course what we're saying here what is adequate, what is desirable.
Here's where I would try to lead you. I would say that you should probably
shoot for anywhere from 15 to 20 minutes. This doesn't have to be every
single time. Like I said earlier, sometimes it's meant to be very quick
and sometimes it's meant to last for hours. But at the very minimum,
anywhere from 15 to 20 minutes because these people are saying "hey that's
when it's the most desirable" and I believe that the more experience you
have in this, the better. Here's what you have to understand about sex. Sex is not
just penis in vagina. Sex is the whole experience. Everything from the
beginning of foreplay all the way till the point where you guys are done being
intimate with each other. So don't think ok "okay
everything has to last these certain minutes that I just said." Really look at
it as a whole. Look at it as a whole, meaning that you
guys could be doing some foreplay. You guys could be kissing for 10 to 15
minutes and then you guys could be cuddling in bed and kissing for another
10 minutes and then clothes come off and you're still kissing for another 10
minutes and then finally you guys are doing some oral and you're doing that
for a little while and then finally you're actually having
sex and that last maybe 10, 15, 20 minutes and then maybe in between those points
you're going back and forth and doing more oral sex. You got to understand that
this is a whole experience in itself that can be broken down into many parts.
It can be as long or as short as desired. What I like to preach on this channel
all the time in a lot of my videos is that guys are too caught up in the
outcome. That's why guys are asking this question "how long should I last in bed?"
You just asking that question out of any kind of fear anxiety like you need
to know the perfect time is already ruining the sexual experience because
you're too much in your head. The more pressure you're putting on yourself, the
less enjoyable the experience is gonna be. Here's a little technique I want
to share with you and this is a win-win situation. When you're with a woman in
the bedroom when you guys are having sex, focus on her pleasure. What is this
gonna do? If you're focusing on her pleasure then you're not so much focused
on your pleasure and then you can prevent things like premature
ejaculation, things like erectile dysfunction so you can be focused more
on her and not so much on you because that's what we do when we freak out or
be anxious. We're all about us up in here. Try to focus more on her. Of course
that's gonna be a win for her and a win for you. To give you some more tips on
how to last longer in bed, if that is an issue for you, I want to cut real quick
to another video that I did where I interviewed one of my favorite sex
coaches who is a wealth of information. Her name is Caitlin V Neal. Check this out.
Another thing that you can do is to slow down. A lot of men think about
sex as a penis centric activity. Like everything is
foreplay and then there's what is called PIV penis and vagina intercourse.
If you think about sex as everything from eye contact, like really think about
sex as the entire process, a build that you were creating, women's brains don't
make the same kind of divisions between sexy time and not sexy time than men's do.
So you might have done something earlier in the day. Maybe you
screamed at someone in traffic or maybe you screamed at her. I mean who knows.
That could be a turn-off for her that's still pushing on her sexual
brakes hours later. Everything between you and the one
that you're getting with is sex. It's sexual in nature. Sex doesn't just
start the minute that the condom goes on or that you enter her. Sex is
a process. It's the whole thing. Caitlyn also wrote a very in-depth
guide which I put on a blog post about the ten mistakes that men make in the
bedroom and this is gonna teach you how to be an amazing lover. Here's what I
want you to do. Go to the description down below, click on that link and check out
that guide. It's free. It's just a blog post on my site and you're gonna learn
everything you need to do to be amazing with your next woman. Check that out and
I'll see you on the next video.

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