
you haven't met already my name is Mona Vayda I'm a motivational
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let's get into it how to believe in yourself I was
actually told this many years back when I was well many many years back when I
was really in the in stage of doing nothing in the nothingness stage if you
all know what I mean we all get to that stage of some point in our lives or go
through it at some point eyes and it was a December and I was at my mom's place
and then she called me over that that afternoon and she sat me down and she
asked me so what are you doing Mona I said what do you mean what am I
doing I'm watching TV she goes no what are you doing I still kind of didn't
it's not what you meant I said what do you mean she said I mean what are you
doing with your life you know you want all these wonderful things all these
expensive things you want to travel all over the world and you just sit around
here all day doing nothing for some reason it's as though you expect all
these amazing incredible things to just fall into your lap and like it's God's
God's duty to just throw it to you and you just pick it up and go off and
do what you want I was bit you know excuse me it's a bit taken back but the
whole thing you know she said okay it God's not just gonna throw these things
at you like you know like some charity case so get up get out do what you want
she gives you all these dreams and aspirations what how are they going to
actually eventualise if you don't do anything about them she goes darling
I believe in you 110% you just need to start believing in yourself and get out
there and do what you need to do alone that night in my room I thought
about what she said first I was pissed off like you know really do I need
another lecture but then when I thought about what she actually had to say it
struck me she's right you know I was seeing around sofa all day you
know I'm not really doing anything with my life just sort of seeing
whatever happens and let's just go with it
it struck me she was correct but you know what struck me even more when she
said she believed in me she believed in me and it struck me at that point that
it was time I started believing in myself and that was a day I genuinely
started believing that I could do things I could do a lot of things anything I
put my mind to in fact and I started doing that I started believing in myself
so if everyone out there is waiting for that that person to come along and you
know excites you and energize you and pump you and going right I believe in
you you can do it get out there start believing yourself then this is it
this is the moment I believe in you I believe in you get out there get off that
couch or get off whatever you're sitting on get off
that get out that comfort zone and get up and get out and start doing stuff
because you have to start believing in yourself and the day you start believing
in yourself is the day miracles begin to unfold in ways you never imagined you
know nothing of value or significance will ever eventualise in your life if
you don't believe in yourself you know the statement that you've heard a
million times the one who thinks he can is the one who wins or guess what it's
true the one who thinks he can is the one who wins so become that one who
thinks he can how to believe in yourself there's three things there's three steps
that believe that this whole believes the process brings to an individual and
human thing athletes successful individuals high achievers
celebrities all these people did not get into the position they are in by not
believing in themselves so the number one crucial thing is they believe in
themselves the belief that you can do it despite what the world may say despite
what the conditions are around it even even if the sky is falling down doesn't
matter you believe in yourself that's all that matters and that is more than
enough when you believe in yourself the entire universe transpires to assist you
to help you out now that concept of you know the universe
works in amazing ways and miraculously does things and you don't
understand the whole thing because it's just you can't get your head around that
doesn't matter it's a fact right so you don't have to
worry about that all you have to remember is the more you believe in
yourself the more everything around this world around you begins to start taking
its place in order to give you what you want it helps you the energy flows
from all direction and if the energy is that I am something I believe in myself
and that energy starts to flow from other people from other things that of
course from the greater cosmic universe whether you understand it or not Oprah
did not become Oprah by accident Steve Jobs did not achieve success by chance
David Beckham did not become one of the greatest footballers by coincidence Bill
Gates did not become the richest man in the world
by default the common number one trait of all these successful people is self
belief belief in themselves belief in themselves that they can do anything I
discussed this in a lot more detail in my video the power of positive thinking
and its effects in your life six key strategies so don't miss that video so
how do you do it how do you do it how do you create the
self belief step number one create an unbreakable belief in yourself
by repeatedly telling yourself on a daily basis that you are here to create
greatness you are here to achieve greatness
you are greatness and you need to start believing that you just are reminding
yourself of that on a daily basis until you believe it no matter what
I am greatness is what you need to start thinking I am greatness
I am greatness and I can do anything step number two how to believe in
yourself step number two break it down what do you want what do you want break
it down have your goals and I'm going to there's
a lot more details in my video on how to set goals in life and achieve them don't
miss out that video but break it down what do you want what what plan what
timeframe everything all that so you have a clear idea what you want then you
can believe and focus on that if you focus on something yourself belief gets
bigger and bigger because you've got something put your energy
into that's a positive thing in your life step number three create a plan you
see in order to achieve greatness you need to know what the greatness is and
where you are going to get that greatness and more importantly what are
you going to give in return for it so is it a service is it a product is it what
is it what is it that you are going to give in return for this greatness and
start working on it stop working on that plan don't wait for today to end or
tomorrow to begin next week Saturday 4 o clock when the another house is quiet
start now start now and once you've created these plans and these little
steps you put into place keep going it doesn't matter if you know if if the
world is falling down it doesn't matter if the ground beneath you is about to
cave in it doesn't matter just keep doing what you are doing without any any
anyone stopping you or anything stopping you
you know swim as hard as you can doesn't matter if you feel like you're drowning
keep swimming keep going keep going at it keep running if your legs are sore
you can't do it anymore ad there are burning and you are going to collapse
keep running and the results will come the results will come all you have to do
is keep working at it keep working at it keep working at it that self-belief
never ever doubt yourself keep working at it
I'm gonna read you a quote R.T Bennett said believe in yourself you are
braver than you think more talented then you know and capable of more than you
imagine that's it that self belief will take you places you truly never
thought possible so summarize how to believe in yourself
three steps step number one create a belief that no one can break by consistent and
continuous repetition of greatness of self greatness step number two focus
have goals step number three create a plan right and follow the plan what are
you going to give in return for this greatness that you are going to receive
and follow that plan because you deserve to be great and you can and you will as
long as you believe in yourself thank you for watching now if you've enjoyed
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live an incredible life why because you deserve it
thank you for watching take care of yourself
this is Mona Vayda
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